Happy October, everyone! I hope you are all doing well.
It’s been a long 3 years since the pandemic , hasn’t it? So many things have occurred that have affected all of us, and i continually pray for global and individual healing.
After reviewing my blog stats here over the long haul ( starting in 2019- when my main priority was sobriety and “getting my life in order” ) I noted readership has been way down the last few years. At first i was unsure why this was happening- a couple of reasons i toyed with included:
- more people were at home during the pandemic with more time to blog and read
- i was posting daily for the first 6 months as opposed to posting less over time
- my content has changed drastically
- increased advertisements, sales pitching, etc has decreased readership over all on this platform
- many of the original bloggers and supporters either got sober and moved on, or relapsed and stopped posting
To be fair, i have not intensely studied the issue or even attempted to resolve it. While this blog is important to me to share my experiences, any wisdom i may gain, and to interact with others – my initial feelings were that I was mainly doing it for myself, as an outlet. I made it a place to share what i had learned in recovery along with other areas of my life, intertwining it and reflecting on how one affected the other. My goal has always been personal self improvement, growth, and learning as I go.
I will say my journey is very short of perfect, as is the case with all humans. However, despite one brief relapse since the end of 2018, i have maintained my goal of sobriety and am a much happier, stable person for it.I would not change that victory for anything.
I am super grateful for those who sprang up during those early months who become my main source of support . We were a pretty cool group of about 15-20 who regularly blogged and exchanged ideas and stories. This has decreased greatly. In fact, of the original group, only 2or 3 have kept posting regularly and continue to comment and support as they once did. I have tried to find other blogs here that are similar and consistent, but have had very little success. This truly saddens me because i honestly believe without this resource, i would have failed utterly. It is my belief that many others could have and would have benefitted in the same manner- and may still. But things change…and it has made me question the futility of spending time and energy here. This is not an accusation nor am i blaming anyone, it may be simply that life has gone in a different direction for many.
With that being said, i regretfully have decided to take a long hiatus from posting. I have had to deal with many losses this year, along with ongoing feelings of estrangement from family and friends, along with grief that continues to paralyze me at times. It has forced me to recognize my many failures, as well as the challenges that lie ahead- some that i will need to spend time healing from and deciding how to proceed. I am not completely abandoning the blog, and hopefully at some point will be able to return with more confidence and happiness. I do not have a time line for this.
I wish you all well. I hope that you will continue to strive for excellence and growth.I hope that you will all remember that gratefulness is the ultimate healer. My own gratitude is always overflowing and i will continue to support, read, and comment on the posts .I am off to take that long walk in the woods.
As always,
Namaste.