Hey ya’ll.. i just got back from my 3rd backpack trip this year! Both of my previous trips were overnighters. This last one was 3 days and 2 nights. I’ve already written about my first trip, so we know that unforeseen weather events can really make you miserable ( i.e. the storms and flooded trails during my June trip). But i haven’t talked about the other two and some of the things that can turn a great adventure into a less than fun experience.
The second overnight trip i did was a solo trip. I didn’t go far- only a few miles on the Appalachian trail.It was more of a pack shakedown trip than anything, but it was my first solo overnight backpack. The trailhead was only 45 minutes from where i live so i didn’t have far to drive either. I can’t think of much that made me even slightly miserable on that one. It was an easy hike, to a place i had vetted several times during daylight hours. The campsite was established, with a nice flat open spot in the woods. I had no issues with anxiety, i wasn’t rushed, was well prepared and the weather was awesome.I slept like a baby. If i had to pick anything to complain about, it might be the unexpected amount of loud air traffic throughout the night. But even that wasn’t too bad. I mostly woke briefly and went right back to sleep.The next morning i woke at my leisure, ate breakfast and enjoyed relaxing to the sounds of nature. The hike back out was beautiful and serene.
This 3rd trip was with the same friend i went with in June. Neither of us had previously done more than an overnighter. My friend had been on one section of the trail before and it was only a 45 minute drive for her. But she had never done the entire thing. We started out on a friday at 8am( i had to wake at 5a and drive 2 hrs to the trailhead) and we returned home sunday afternoon. Mornings are hard for me since i am a full time night shifter. Although the trail is rated as “easy” and a great beginner back packing trail it was not without any negatives. For one thing, 70% of the trail was rockier than expected- as in extended fields of large rocks to navigate. Secondly, at least half of those were uphill. I can’t say they were extremely dangerous or severe, but they definitely made the going rough in many spots and slowed us down.
Next, as we were to discover, the recent drought made us have to backtrack at one point because the expected water source was bone dry. The first day was supposed to be 8-10 miles, but having to retrace our steps back to another small ( and not very clear) water source made the days total over 13 miles. We both felt beat up. I had brought enough water, but my friend didnt, so we didnt really have a choice. And the campsite at that water source was pretty bad. I had to sleep on a slant with a large tree root under my back. Both of our sleep pads deflated throughout the night and it made for very poor sleep. The saving grace was that the next day we only had to hike around 6 miles to a wonderful campsite by a stream of pretty clear water.Although i slept very well that night and my pad stayed inflated, my friend didn’t as her pad continued to deflate throughout the night, and she woke up very sore and cranky.The night also became super cold, and i was grateful i brought a down jacket.
Our last day led to a beautiful waterfall and we had plentiful water sources. But the rough rocky trails continued to thwart us. As i had started out the cold day with my down jacket on over a thermal shirt and two pairs of pants, within a few miles i had to stop to change and at that point we got separated.
You see, my friend hikes at a much faster pace than i do. And that is one of the things that can make things difficult, even if a trail is perfect ( and none are). When i have a very light or no pack at all, my pace is around 2-2.5mph. With a 25 lb pack, rocky terrain and going even slightly uphill multiple times in a day, i hike around 1.7 mph. I really prefer, in that situation, to limit my daily miles to 8-10. And, ideally, stop to go pee and/or take a snack break every 4-5 miles. That did not happen on either of our trips.
Now, before you assume i am blaming her for anything, understand that everybody has a different hiking style and pace. My friend did not need to stop that often and she hiked at around 2mph or more, even with her pack being about the same weight as mine. Why? For a number of reasons.
Most importantly, she is abut 20 years younger than me. Secondly, she has never smoked. I only quit smoking a little over 3 months ago. Those two facts have huge effects on how we are able to hike. Yes, i can go the same amount of miles, but i do go slower. The reason is simple- i like to enjoy the trail without being out of breath the entire time trying to keep up with someone, AND i want to avoid injury. I don’t want to suffer by having to hold my bladder for fear that if i stop, i will get too far behind. I also don’t want to suffer hunger pains because if it stop to get out a snack or sit for 10 minutes, i’ll get too far behind. As a content creator i also wanted to get good footage, but if i stopped too much or for too long, i would be making her wait, or i’d get too far behind.In the morning, i like to take my time enjoying a coffee or two, and have the time to pack up my stuff properly, not jamming it hurriedly into my pack. For me it’s not about how fast i can go or how many miles i can cover in a day. And, it’s about relaxing, soaking in nature, stopping to notice and take in the beauty. That’s just what makes sense to me.
Again- i am not blaming her for anything! God love her, i know she was trying to go slower and wait for me at times. But, after all was said and done i think we both realize that we either are not a good fit for backpacking OR that we both need to manage our expectations and certain agreements need to be in place prior to setting out, not only for safety, but out of necessity. We do enjoy each others company, so it may be that we will just camp together, and do our hiking/backpacking solo. i don’t regret going, just know that with any future trips expectations will need to be set so that we both can get what we want from the experience.
Now, a few other things ( not related to a pace or partner):
I wore a different pair of shoes this time and they really did not fair well for the long miles. I have multiple blisters. I also wore a regular bra this time and the pack straps were pressing on them so i have bruises on both shoulders. Somehow i got a bruise on my face next to my one eye as well- not sure how that happened, and because i was trying to save on baby wipes, i didnt wash my hands as often as i should have (and yes, i did use hand sanitizer) i must have gotten dirt my eye which caused a sty. Additionally, since i use only one handkerchief as a “pee” cloth, i was also concerned about getting a UTI(ps- that didnt happen thankfully!).So next time-a later start( maybe 11am), better shoes, a sports bra with no metal parts, and enough baby wipes that i’m not so worried about using them sparingly for wiping my hands and ‘nether region’.
Every hike is a learning curve and i’m ok with that.
We hiked over 27 miles and survived- again!! I’m feeling pretty darn good that at my age and with as little experience i have that i accomplished that.Many people start out with way less miles and take a lot longer to build up to longer trips. Someday though, i want not just to survive, but thrive!
Onward and upward!